In this week’s lectures, Ram Dass says, "You can’t polarize it again, you can’t have an us and them. It’s got to keep embracing people…Or, it is possible for us as conscious and compassionate people to define limits and push against the limit, and define the limit, and at the same moment,keep our hearts open to these beings…Any unity that is that we arrive at through love or violence or coercion, from outside, won’t work."
What in your life needs to be embraced rather than polarized? What needs an open hearted, defining limit? Is this an either/or, or a both/and?